If you tell yourself that you can, you’re more likely to try.

When you’re more likely to try, you’re more likely to win.

Achieving the unimaginable doesn’t require any special skills, it does require a willingness to show up.

More importantly, how you show up.

If you’re going to a party, chances are you bring something along.

Why not take the same approach with life?

So here we are at this pivotal point in history, hopefully asking ourselves, what unimaginable things can I accomplish in my life?

That’s the question I asked myself as the dread of becoming a year older crept up.

It was time to set the theme for the next year of my life.

Besides, what’s the sense of creating an entire brand development framework and program if I don’t take my own medicine?

The rules are simple, look at three areas that I want to focus on or improve in. 

From there the overarching theme often arises. 

So after reflecting on the past year of returning to the stage after burnout, reigniting my loveable core, and finding the passion to create again, the answer became quite clear.

In order to reach the next level as a creative and entrepreneur, I would need to be relentless in my pursuit of my ambitions, while removing the fear of setting healthy boundaries.

Most importantly, in order to heal, I’d need to create deeply.

Let’s break it down.

Chase Your Ambition

Often we’re told to chase our dreams but what about chasing ambition instead?

Dreams come and go. 

Ambition however requires a much different approach.

The long game, where the endurance levels intensify and only those who see it through will make it to the promised land.

In this lane, it comes down to how bad you truly want to reach a better level that goes beyond financial gain and fame.

We’re talking about the kind of ambition that wields true influence where it naturally sets the standard everywhere it goes.

This only happens when you set your focus on something bigger than what the status quo offers.

It’s an opportunity to stretch farther than your current comfort zone suggests but only if you dare to answer the call.

With that in mind, I assembled a traction list aka a list of things that I want to accomplish before 2020. 

The plan with this strategy is to leverage the trade winds of turning a year older to finish the year strong and build up the needed momentum to crush the upcoming calendar year. 

In short, it’s an ambitious effort to supercharge my loveable core to an intensity that it hasn’t really seen before.

Surprisingly I’ve accomplished a little over 30% of the things on the list with a few months left in 2019 to spare at the time of writing.

That’s the thing about being intentional when you’re chasing your ambitions. It allows you to reach into a source of energy far greater than what the gurus and self help experts can ever offer.

Ambition however, is limited by the boundaries you perceive and the boundaries you set with those around you.

Set Your Own Boundaries

Protecting your energy as a creative and leader is key to being successful.

Let the wrong energy into your life and you’ll spend more time trying to balance things out than anything else.

This is one area where prevention is definitely much better than the cure.

However, if you limit yourself to only achieving what you think is possible, you’ll never go farther than I what you can see.

Setting your own boundaries requires a different type of faith, one that is only acquired by passing through the valleys.

Experience is the only teacher that can deliver this perspective effectively.

As you set boundaries the key here is to balance making the map and filling in the details.

Lean too much in either direction or on anyone’s shoulder too much and there could be a problem.

There has to be a point in time when you’re simply comfortable in your own skin and content with who you are as an individual.

No one else can determine what’s ok for you. 

Only you can decide if you approve or deny of an experience.

Above all, only you can limit yourself. 

It’s about time you started to view your life with a little more appreciation and with the perspective that you can accomplish the things others say you can’t.

There’s a certain level as an individual that you realize that you need to find the limit and push it.

When you think you can’t.

Keep going but be respectful.

Like seriously, if you need to reach that next level.

Like you’ve been dreaming about it until you want it so bad until you want it badly at every step of being awake…

Max it to the limit.

Dig deep into your creative self and unleash ALL the dreams.

Too many people out here in this world living with regret.

Too many people wishing they could just be unchained from the expectations and created the good they wished to see.

Goodness. At what point does that change?

Let’s get real, if you don’t value yourself then chances are others won’t value you either.

The boundaries you set will either give you room to heal or they’ll constrain you to continue suffering in pain.

Create To Heal

Creativity is all about solving problems, so why not utilize a little creativity when it comes to healing?

Whether it’s establishing boundaries, setting goals or in this case with healing, creativity can go a long way.

If there’s a most important thing or “growth hack” it would be this; your creativity shouldn’t be overlooked in the healing process.

Often the emotions and thoughts that don’t fit within the normal boxes of expression find their way out through ones creativity.

When they do the first response is to fight the thought away.

The problem is that the thought builds up to a feeling where at some point the dam bursts.

In some cases that burst is expressed in a constructive manner and in other ways through unhealthy behavior.

One of these allows you to heal and face the fears you’ve been avoiding while the other ends up creating a much bigger mess to clean up later.

Immerse yourself in the creativity of life. 

Take the scars of life and turn them into stories that leave an impact.

Push back on the negative thoughts and reinforce your spirit with love and hope.

Establish the boundaries necessary to protect your soul, extend the vision of your ambition, create that which allows you to heal.

Keep the receipts of thy accomplishments and frequently give gratitude for the experiences that lead to each one.

Find your others, the ones that push you to be better in all the things.

Quality is the result of intentional and intelligent action.

Remember why you started but focus on why you kept going.

It’s not about being liked. 

It’s about being respected and learning to respect yourself. 

Do you respect yourself enough to attempt to achieve the unimaginable?

If you do, go out and live like it.

Live like you’re actually aiming upward and not just wishing it.

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You see, it’ll be 2020 next year.

Up until this point, we’ve really only scratched the surface of the 21st century.

It’s been a wild ride since Y2K, the year 2000 and all of the joys that came after that.

However, there’s one thing missing.

We really haven’t looked at just how important it is.

Within this new age of work, the new age of education, the new age of family, friends and relationships.

We haven’t taken the moment to see just how important our lovable core is.

Up until now, we’ve really only approached work, life, dreams and goals, with a very general and often naive point of view.

We try to put each of these segments into their own container and we become a different person to meet the needs of each and every one.

Ultimately, we become the type of person that grows to become unfamiliar with oneself.

This unfamiliar feeling and perspective then grows into almost a mold of parasitic proportions.

One that goes on to destroy our family, our goals and mentally who we are.

Understanding your lovable core simply means this.

It means that you understand where your values, your priorities, your skills, and above all, who you are as an individual, and not who you are, as a job title.

The most powerful and courageous way to live in this world isn’t to sit on the sidelines and observe or to wish and hope that something grand and magical will happen.

No, instead it’s to go and live boldly.

To embrace each and every perspective, each and every new level that facilitates growth, that produces empathy and that showcases that you are more than just a cog in the machine.

That is the true power of being aligned with an activated lovable core.

So as you embark into the future regardless of what point in the year or a day or time in the life that you are, remember this; It only matters where you are going and how you’re getting there.

Because where you are right now is only one small piece of the grand story that is your life.

The choices, the people we surround ourselves with and our energy that is brought into each and every day is all that truly matters.

Someone will always be smarter, stronger, faster, richer.

There will always be problems that you cannot control or solve or prevent.

But that doesn’t mean that who you are, is diluted in the process.

So, I hope that you take each and every moment especially the moments when anxiety pops up and tries to paralyze you from moving forward.

I hope that you take these moments to lean in and say “I am going to continue aiming always upward.”

You never know who you’re inspiring just by showing up and you’ll never know the difference you’ll make if you never try.

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If anything it’s about finding the right stones to turn over. 

As Seth Godin points out, “Pick the right stones and cherish them as you turn them over.”

The key isn’t to pursue quantity but an in-depth appreciation for quality. 

Otherwise an overabundance of anything often leads to waste. 

The efforts of today compound over time when done with consistency. 

So bring your heart and fill it with quality.

Anything else is a pursuit of insanity thinking that to have more leads to success.

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If you’re constructing a house, you don’t start by putting in windows and doors before the foundation and frame of the building.

It’s easy to lose focus on the important things.

It’s even easier to get caught up in trying to please others.

However, both of these things will often take you farther from where you need to be.

The smart thing to do is to respect the process.

When you do, you’ll be able to be proactive and make progress.

When you don’t, things can get messy, quickly.

When you show up for yourself, it shouldn’t be in a haphazard way.

You are worth more than you’ve probably told yourself.

But that doesn’t mean you get to have an ego.

The process isn’t an obstacle, if anything it’s your friend.

So go ahead, disrespect the process and see what happens.

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When will you realize that this thing called life can’t be played as an observer? No matter how hard you may try.

When will you learn that all the ways you try to numb the pain won’t truly make it go away?

When will you stop checking your phone and start checking in on your goals?

When will you stop using the past as an excuse and start leveraging it as fuel?

When will you stop letting the “failures” define you?

Seriously, when will you?

The version of yourself, that better version that you see every time you close your eyes is waiting to meet you.

When will you accept the invite?

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To go after your dreams is a risk.

To NOT go after your goals is a risk.

But sometimes you have to risk it all for the invisible that you only can see.

Because the biggest risk of all is to live a life that causes you to look back with regret.

Without the leap of faith, you’ll never know what you truly could be.

So do yourself, the world, and your future a favor.

Take the leap of faith and embrace the risk.

What would your tomorrow look like if you started believing in your dreams and goals today?

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“You’re doing great, I know it”, was the sentence my tiny human shared with me as I began pulling the bag out of its container.

A simple sentence that made a mundane task a little more pleasant to endure. I mean, who really likes taking out the trash?

Yet, it’s a task that must be done in order to prevent a much more unpleasant experience from happening.

Much like life, there’s a good and bad side to most anything but especially when it comes to how well you can execute.

Throughout history there have been millions if not more that had a great idea but failed to execute.

The sure thing that the comfort zone provided turned out to be an illusion. Leaving them only with regret in the form of the question, “What if I had tried?”

Unfortunately, millions more will make this same mistake.

Hopefully none of those people will be you.

Life may not seem like a great thing right now but just keep pushing forward.

One step at a time. One moment at a time.

You’re doing great, I know it.

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You’ll never have the perspective of where you’re going, if you never take the time to understand what you’ve survived so far.

It wasn’t until I was laid off from an ad agency on my birthday while going into my second year as a parent did this phrase make sense in a full clarity kind of way.

But here’s what else I learned:

You aren’t the title, you’re a person with a story to share, love to give, and value to pass on. Live as such.

It’ll be tempting to do otherwise but as long as you’re truly practicing self care and acknowledging why you carry the scars you do, things become easier to navigate.

You’ll still need to put in the work though.

Life is what you make it.

Sure there are things outside of your control but how you choose to respond is what speaks to your character.

Resilience isn’t built by sitting on the sidelines.

Life will demand everything you have and then some but it’s how you respond back within these moments that give you the strength to keep going.

Your Gut Knows What’s Up. Listen.

This should be pretty explanatory but just in case it isn’t, trust your instincts but be open to adventure.

Each experience simply builds upon the previous one based on the lesson we chose to take away.

It’s important to take note of this.

Every experience can yield a multitude of lessons that our brains store away for future reference.

Those “lessons” will be referenced in ways that can either prove to be a blessing or curse.

So train yourself to gather the right lessons.

Finally, surround yourself with people that’ll tell it like it is that have your best interest at heart.

Not everyone is a solid source of support.

Without these lessons, my transition into owning my own branding firm would have been a complete disaster.

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It’s easier to reach for comfort than it is for growth.

Easier to play it safe than to take a risk.

But what happens when you reach the end of your life, and all you’ve been left holding is a bag of regrets?

What if you were to just get lost in the moment and rise above the noise?

What would happen if you allowed your focus to be on the goal as you go through the messy, mundane, and madness that often is life?

Would your fears still seem bigger than your dreams?

I’m guessing the answer would be no.

There are going to be days when all that you can do is facepalm at the state of things around you.

This mindset of everything has to be perfect before it launches is the killer of more dreams and organizations than anything else.

The whole point of life is to grow by learning…while being a decent human in the process.

So what if you fall down a few times on the way to your goals, keep rising.

Small steps made daily yield more progress than large steps made infrequently.

Train your mind to look above the noise and your steps will follow.

What will you choose today?

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In a matter of moments it can imagine absolutely anything.

When harnessed for a bigger purpose your mind is capable of contributing to massive positive change.

But on the micro level, your dreams and goals are your responsibility to see through.

Failing is a part of the process.

So are the obstacles.

Because at the end of the day, if you really want to make a difference, you’ll find a way.

You weren’t made to have a common existence.

Know the difference between giving up and knowing when you’ve had enough.

It’s time to stop hiding in the shadows of the comfort zone, and step into the light of your creative good.

Your dream. Your responsibility. Your choice.

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